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Controlling emotions are damn so hard, When my heart is screaming with pain and hate towards the my loved one, When I see that i am being treated with inequality compared with my own people, When my soul says to leave the threads of relationships which i am born with, When I am lesser than any other in my own family, When shaitan whispers to hate and break in depression and relations, It becomes hardest to hold onto my faith of being in Islam and living for Allah swt is the hardest. I cry only in front of him deep in heart, I ask begging only to him to make better than happening, Realizing that he knows more than i do, comforts my pain, When i know he has more than my knowledge is the way towards soothing soul. When i trust the one rule, Allah is the master of everything, one rule that is living a life in Islam is better than anything in world, one rule that my reward for patience is unpredictable from him is helping me to ease. But still I am a human who holds ...
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The Journey of Detachment

When you're away from home, you miss it deeply. It's not just the house you miss, but every moment spent there with the people you love and care about. For me, being with family at home brings peace. Sharing a cup of chai with biscuits and engaging in ongoing gossip with my mother, sister, and brother is a blessing. I miss my home, my dream home, built with so many dreams and so much love. Every inch of it was planned and thought out by us. We had to sell it due to circumstances that tested us. We built it with a lot of emotions and love, and I miss every inch of it that gave me countless memories and moments. But it was God's plan to teach me that not everything in this world is permanent. We come across many things to which we get attached, but they are just material possessions. As Muslims, we believe that we are travelers in this world. We come empty-handed and leave empty-handed, collecting only deeds based on our actions. When we sold the house, I was sad and depr...
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The Path to Inner Peace

  Peace is something we all crave. We wish, pray, and seek a peaceful and happy life, but often, we find ourselves overwhelmed by stress and anxiety in this pursuit. We tend to overthink and create scenarios in our minds that are far from reality. I, too, crave peace, but instead of doing things that bring me peace, I often do the opposite. I worry about things beyond my control, and most of these worries never come to pass. I realized that my constant chain of thoughts was causing me stress and tension, preventing me from finding peace. Identifying the real problem was the first step toward my journey to peace. I began focusing on activities that bring me tranquility and calm my mind. Instead of dwelling on things I cannot control, I started concentrating on what I can control. I began journaling my thoughts, planning my day, praying, taking care of my eating habits, spending quality time with myself, and reducing unnecessary screen time. I have been practicing these habits ...
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Navigating Jealousy and Insecurity

Not everyone in this world is good. I consider myself a good soul, and I used to believe that everyone around me was as good as I am. But that's not true. I feel happy for others' happiness and sad for their sadness, but I have seen people who are jealous and insecure about my growth and happiness. People can be black and white in their character. When they see themselves growing while others are not, they show pity and try to console them instead of helping them grow. In reality, they feel happy inside that others are lesser than them. Conversely, when others grow and do well, they cannot digest the reality and become merciless and unkind, cutting off all paths for them to grow. Identifying such people is very difficult, but God always shows the reality by giving us difficulties. It doesn't mean that God is pulling us down; rather, He is showing us the real faces of people. Removing such individuals from our circle and life is the best thing we can do. Being away from nega...
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Money: The Ultimate Test of Character

Money is not just a means of survival; it is also a powerful indicator of trustworthiness. When we have nothing, it reveals the true nature of those we once believed would support us. The character and behavior of people can change dramatically depending on whether we have money or not. When someone stands by us and offers help in our time of need, it strengthens bonds and trust. However, when they turn away despite having the means to help, it becomes clear who truly cares. This realization can be painful, but it is a valuable lesson. Today, I have come to understand that I should be cautious about whom I trust with my money. Those who turned their backs on me when I needed them, yet acted like good friends when I had money, do not deserve my trust. Trusting people these days is not as easy as it once was. Many prioritize money over the bonds and relationships we have built.
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Words are More Magical than Magic

We experience a range of emotions—happiness, excitement, surprise, anxiety, sadness, and depression—all through the power of words. I once told a friend during a badminton game, "I don’t ever sweat no matter how much I play, just like a pig. I hate my body." I stopped her and said, "Don’t ever degrade yourself, no matter how bad you feel. Your mind will accept it and make you feel that way. If we don’t see ourselves as good and powerful, who else will? Compare yourself with the best things you’ve seen and felt, not the worst." My words had an instant effect on her. She realized and said, "Yes, I will never compare myself with bad things and will think positively about myself." It was powerful, and we both knew it. Whenever I get worried, stressed, or anxious, I just want to see my husband and hear him say that he is there for me and will take care of me. Every time I feel stuck and anxious, he hugs me and says the word "RELAX." I feel that wo...
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The Magic of Marriage: A Blessing from God

  Is marriage good or bad? Will we get a good person who understands us or neglects our interests and be himself? According to me, marriage is one of the best blessings God has given to all of us. I have been in Kolkata due to my office work and I came back yesterday at midnight. As per my old blog, you can see that I was stressed and finding a way out of it. Today, I'm out of it, bit relaxed and renewed. It's the magic of marriage. The way the other person treats you, holds you, and pampers you matters a lot. I gave every inch and centimeter of my stress to God and believed that He would take care of it. I got this strength only by my husband's ability to make me understand that I need to let go of things I cannot control. He is my happy home, my prayer come true. Every time I meet him, be with him, spend time with him, I heal, I glow, and I grow. I give all my stress, issues, and worries to God and to him to handle. I believe that they can handle me and my issues. All my ...
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