The Magic of Marriage: A Blessing from God

 Is marriage good or bad? Will we get a good person who understands us or neglects our interests and be himself? According to me, marriage is one of the best blessings God has given to all of us. I have been in Kolkata due to my office work and I came back yesterday at midnight. As per my old blog, you can see that I was stressed and finding a way out of it. Today, I'm out of it, bit relaxed and renewed. It's the magic of marriage. The way the other person treats you, holds you, and pampers you matters a lot. I gave every inch and centimeter of my stress to God and believed that He would take care of it. I got this strength only by my husband's ability to make me understand that I need to let go of things I cannot control. He is my happy home, my prayer come true. Every time I meet him, be with him, spend time with him, I heal, I glow, and I grow. I give all my stress, issues, and worries to God and to him to handle. I believe that they can handle me and my issues. All my energy and mental strength get renewed by being with my husband. He gives me peace, which comes from the blessings of God, Allah, Subhanahu Ta'ala. I believe that if you are correct, you will always get a person who is right for you. Everything depends on ourselves and how much we give to the relationship. The strength and weakness in a relationship are nurtured by our actions. Alhamdulillah, I always say go for marriage. You will see all your issues become easier to handle. You will get a partner to hold you in your worries and support you if you do the same for them.

Recently, I got my performance check at the office and I topped the team by 44%. Everyone in the board meeting identified, appreciated, and clapped for me. This success is a part of my happy marriage. The way he supports me is unmatched. He celebrates even my smallest successes in the best way. Inshallah, your destiny is always written by the best writer, which is God. Yes, we do have issues between us. We fight, we give emotional traumas to each other, we feel stuck because of each other, but we never give up on each other. We will never give up. As I said, every relationship depends on how we nurture it. If your husband is also your biggest blessing and happiness, please let me know.

 

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