Accepting flaws.

Today on the way to the office, I have seen aged woman, and her body was uncomfortable to look at, she had Vitiligo, and her skin was in discoloration and full of white and dark patches, I have seen people with this disease but never thought of them, but now, my mind questioned, how it would have been when she got to know that she cannot look normal like others, her skin, her appearance will always look like this, it may be uncomfortable to her too whenever she looks up on herself and on the mirror, it would be a huge mental trauma she would have gone through with herself, she can’t complain, blame anyone for this, she would have cried many nights with this thought that she doesn’t look like others, she look different, she would have thought that she doesn’t belong to her, like my thought may be limited but hers, being in her place it is very difficult to accept, but she is being, even I saw her husband was with her, he was fine and I feel like they both are fine with that disease, but I really feel so good as about her husband that he took her flaw as small thing which did not came in between them, they are running tiffin shop on road side, it was so good to see people around them came to have food she prepared, irrespective feeling uncomfortable, feeling bad to take food from her, I really feel it’s also so important for the people she is surrounded with as they could have made her life worst by cursing and misbehaving, being toxic but they understood that it’s not her fault to be like that and she, her beauty cannot be defined by her appearance. She accepted her, and her husband accepted her, for a woman when she accepts her and she has the support of her family, she can do anything and no society has a right to question her, people have to accept her and they will eventually accept and understand.

I really feel accepting a flaw is very difficult and living with that without changing can be more difficult, she did that, and people who look at her may take back that look from her after a second but she has to live with that forever, life gives everyone a flaw to deal with it, we cannot change it irrespective what we do, we have to learn to accept it, learn that it part of our self and our life, it is difficult but we can do it, ya, I really feel that we can do it, ya, I accept that people around was is also vital who can make us feel better, make us we are equal to them with flaws, and it's beautiful to have that flaw within us. Let's accept our flaws and make others feel safe and comfortable by accepting and understanding theirs.

Let's all strive to create a more inclusive and compassionate world by embracing our own imperfections and celebrating the unique qualities that make each of us who we are.


#VitiligoAwareness #SelfAcceptance #EmbraceYourFlaws #CompassionateWorld #InclusiveSociety #UniqueQualities #SupportiveFamily #MentalHealthAwareness #BeautyBeyondAppearance #RespectDifferences

 


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